Hi Happynonie,
Welcome to the forum.
What's worked for me is working out 5x a week, 45-60 minutes and including a lot of resistance training---weights, bands, body weight, pilates etc.
I do a very wide variety of videos but I do more circuit tapes than anything else---meaning the combo of cardio and strength. I really the Firm's pinks ---there are many, but I like
500 Calorie Burn,
Bootcamp Maximum Calorie burn,
Get Chiseled,
Cardio Dance Fusion,
Pump Jump and Jab, and Cardio Sculpting balls.Most of these are intermediate level and can be worked up to or heavied up for a more advanced work out.
Other strength/toning work outs I like are
NYC/Kelly Coffey Mayer, as well as some of her 30 Minutes to Fitness work outs, some of Gilad's weights and tone work outs,
Reach with Kari Anderson,
Squeeze.
I also have a daily calorie count adjusted to my height, current weight and level of exercise, calculated for the loss of one pound a week. It is a very comfortable amount of calories for me and I don't feel deprived, still have enough treats to stay happy. I've put the link to the calculator I use below. In case it doesn't work, google freedieting-the Weight Loss Guide.
It's been slow but sure. Take heart---I think you can melt away the middle with consistent exercise, and a reasonable calorie count. Oh, and yeah, patience. It's taken me 7 months to lose 30 lbs, which comes to pretty close to my goal of one pound a week. Even with 20 lbs still to go, there is a SIGNIFICANT difference in my mid section from when I started, I have no reason not to believe it will keep going as long as I keep going. :)
Good luck.
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